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7 Surefire Ways to Tell if He Likes You

So, it happened while dating. You caught feelings and you want a relationship. But you can’t tell if your new love interest is vibing with you or if he’s just not that into you. If a man has captured your attention and you can’t figure out if the feeling is mutual, here are 7 surefire signs to help determine if he likes you. 

Sign #1 – He requests your digits and follows through

Any man can ask for your number, but not every man will take the time to text or ring your phone. If a man asks for your number and you are intrigued enough to share it, pay attention to his efforts. If he doesn’t get in touch or makes zero effort to conversate, he is nothing more than a player, and you need to quit his game. On the other hand, if he makes an active effort to get to know you as a person, play along. You may have landed yourself a keeper. 

Sign #2 – He remembers details about your life

We’ve all shared parts of ourselves with others only to find out they didn’t deserve us much later. Early on, knowing if they’re deserving is challenging to determine. If you share information about yourself, your past, and your life, and your man takes the time to retain it, that should be considered proof he genuinely cares about you as a person. 

Sign #3 – He chooses you

Whether you are juggling work or school, your schedule is probably full on a daily basis. If your new love interest takes the time out of his busy schedule to spend time with you or to be there for you, there’s a good chance he thinks about you in the same way. Give him bonus points for changing plans to spend time with you. 

Sign #4 – He wants to know if you’re dating someone 

Has a man asked if you are seeing anyone? If a man is interested in you, this is one of the first questions he’ll ask. Of course, it is logical for a man to rule out any competition before becoming invested in your relationship. That way, he can avoid intruding on someone else’s relationship while protecting himself from a broken heart. 

Sign #5 – He shows you that he cares

These days, it seems just about every man is great at spitting game. But, what if that’s all they’re good at doing when it comes to romantic relationships? What if all they do is tell you how much they love you but never truly show it? When a man is sincere about their feelings, they do more than talk a good game. They show you they mean it every single day. 

Sign #6 – He tells you he likes you

Honesty is always the best policy. If you have found a man that you can’t get out of your head, there’s a good chance he will open up on his own and tell you without any provocation. However, if a little nudge won’t do the trick, you can find out if he shares the same sentiment by outright asking. 

Sign #7 – He agrees to a date

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The easiest way to find out if a man’s feelings for you are platonic or romantic is by asking him out on a date. Of course, if that’s too intimidating for you, you can always wait a few weeks to see if he pops the date question on his own. Obviously, if he declines your request, he’s probably not interested. 

Finding true love is difficult enough without wondering if the one you have romantic feelings for is interested. While not everyone will be able to recognize all of the signs without mind-reading abilities, these handy indicators may help you decide if the one who has captured your heart feels the same as you.



Carlos Cavallo

Carlos Cavallo is the world-renowned celebrity dating & relationship advice for women coach. He's the author of Passion Phrases, The Cupid Effect, with hundreds of articles, videos, and dating tips for women.

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